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Sunday, November 13, 2011

Age.

I wanna pose a question. In a relationship does age matter? I know this is more of a question that depends on the relationship. But over all can it work? I know the biggest factor is what can you have in common with someone younger/older? I also wanna say that communication is key!
That's with every relationship that you have romantic or not!

For me i think that the most important thing is how you feel. If you care enough about this person to take whatever problems may arise then who's to say it won't work? All relationships have problems regardless. If your willing to stick with this person thru thick & thin who is anyone to judge. Unfortunately there will always people who judge you and the choices you make. That's when having a strong and stable relationship comes to play.

I think with a relationship with an age difference the biggest factor will be what is said by friends & family members. In a perfect world they would be happy with who you were with as long as they knew you were happy. But that's not how it is lol. That's a unfortunate reality. They say they will support you but what they mean is they will support you if its something that makes them happy. If you don't think so then seriously stop & think about it.

My answer to my own question is this: I don't think it's right to count anyone out. Whether it's because of age, race, standing, etc... Life is too short for "what ifs" so if your happy then go for it, In the end it's either going to work or its not. Take it as a learning experience & move on. & most importantly stand strong 7 don't let others judgments or opinions get you done. it's your relationship not theirs.

“Doubt yourself and you doubt everything you see. Judge yourself and you see judges everywhere. But if you listen to the sound of your own voice, you can rise above doubt and judgment. And you can see forever.”

XOXO,

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