First Love.

Last night I was watching an Asian movie called, Finding Mr. Destiny. It was about a woman who was using a agnecy to find her first love from many years ago. & the biggest question was if he was her destiny.

This brings me to the subject of my post. I don't think I am going to far when I say every one has a first love. That one person who made us feel like we were gonna be together forever. Have that "happily every after." Now don't get me wrong I'm not using that phrase to be funny. We all have used and expressed those words before in some way, shape, or form. Don't try to deny it! Lol.

Is your first love your destiny? Is your first love the person you should end up with? & if you believe so is fate going to reunite you in the end if you two become seperated? Those were the question's that I asked myself after watching this movie.

After some thinking I think that there is no denying that your first love will always hold a special place in your heart. Do I think there your destiny, no. First love means to me the first experiences of a deep commitment and caring for someone. It was once said that first love is only a little foolishness and a lot of curiosity. That being said it is safe to say it is our first experience in growth and learning when it comes to adult relationships.

There's no denying first love leaves behind memories that you don't really ever forget. But that doesn't mean there won't be better ones. In a way, to me, our first love is like a stepping stone to something more...

XOXO,